失败的人之所以失败 原因都在自身

　　每个人都想在某个领域取得成功，而大多数人只是希望被看作成功人士，不愿意养成习惯和做出努力，我们都喜欢相信自己比实际上的自己能力更强更优秀，也喜欢认为任何取得成功的人，只是运气好，或者认识厉害的人。我们同时也喜欢相信，只要还在工作，就不算成功，只要还在为钱发愁，也不算成功，我们应该把注意力放在什么地方？

 

　　Everybody wants to be successful, in some way, shape, or form. The trouble is, most people want to be seen or known as successful more than they want to break the necessary bad habits required to actually be successful. That’s because the lifestyle and rewards that come with success make everything seem easy. People think once they’re successful, they’ll have all the time in the world to do whatever they want. They think they’ll never have to work hard again. They think they won’t have to worry about things like money. And since those are the rewards they’re after, that’s all they focus on. If they still don’t have all the time in the world, they’re unsuccessful. If they’re still working, they’re unsuccessful. If they’re still worrying about money, they’re unsuccessful. As a result, they stay focused on all the wrong things, and ironically, never truly become successful.

　　每个人都想在某个方面或以某种方式成功。问题是，大多数人只是希望被视为成功人士，而不愿努力改掉那些要想成功所必需改掉的坏习惯。这是因为成功带来的生活方式和回报让一切看起来都很容易。人们认为一旦成功了，就可以用所有的时间做自己想做的事；人们认为一旦成功了，就再也不用努力工作了；人们认为一旦成功了，就不用担心钱之类的事情了。由于这些就是他们追求的回报，所以他们只关注这些。如果他们没有充足的时间，就不算成功；如果他们还在工作，就不算成功；如果他们还在为钱发愁，就不算成功。结果，他们总是把注意力放在错误的事情上，并且讽刺的是，他们永远无法真正成功。

　　People that fall short in life do so by their own volition. Unfortunately, they never realize it. They move through life chasing all the things they see other people enjoying at the end, without also seeing the habits, behaviors, and decisions those people had to make all along the way. If you want to know why you’re not as successful as you should be, it’s probably because of one of these reasons.

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